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Step Five

We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

   
     
 
 

Question 2:

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This seems humiliating! Why does this step require me to humiliate myself in this way?
Answers:

This step isn't about humiliation at all. It is about "humility-a word often misunderstood. To those who have made progress is A.A., it amounts to a clear recognition of what and who we really are, followed by a sincere attempt to become what we could be. Therefore our first practical move toward humility must consist of recognizing our deficiencies." (Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.58)
The Steps Foundation

"An attitude of humility is not the same as humiliation, nor is it a denial of our good qualities. On the contrary an attitude of humility means that we have a realistic view of ourselves and our place in the world."
It Works, How and Why (p.69)

 
 
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