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When I first saw meditation
mentioned in the 11th Step I thought it meant sitting down and reading
a nice little “meditation” passage out of some book.
Now, after listening to people talk in meetings, I am getting the
impression that the step really means Meditation, you know, like
the Buddhist monks do. How do I do this? I’ve tried and I
can’t even meditate for 10 seconds! My mind keeps running
like crazy!
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Relax! I have been practicing
meditation as instructed by this step for years and I can’t
meditate for 10 seconds either. It takes much longer than that for
me to quiet my mind and enter that deep, restful state that is at
the core of meditation. Successful meditation requires practice
and perseverance: two things I was never good at. I had to force
myself to sit still for much longer than 10 seconds to get my mind
to quiet down at all and I needed to practice this for many days
before I got any good at it. The payoff has been enormous: the greatest
benefit being a calmness at my center where I am connected to my
Higher Power.
Chris H
There are some basic elements for successful meditation. First
it requires a little discipline. Pick a time of day, perhaps early
morning, or when you get home from work (or even both) and plan
to allocate at least 20 minutes. Pick a quiet place where interruptions
are unlikely and choose a comfortable place to sit. The next step
is to close your eyes and start breathing slowly and deeply, becoming
aware of your breath as it goes in and out. Some people find it
helpful to use a “mantra” with this breathing process,
such as thinking “Peace” on the incoming breath and
“Release” while exhaling – this is a form of distraction
to keep our mind off of its natural tendency to jump around from
thought to thought. If thoughts do come up don’t worry, just
let them go and continue breathing deeply. As we continue we eventually
come into a very peaceful, uncluttered state of mind. In this state
of peace our God consciousness can grow.
Gifford D
Alcoholics (and addicts) possess a restless spirit that tends toward
overactivity. We not only practiced uncontrolled drinking, but we
showed evidence of our intemperance in many other ways. Therefore
we recommend relaxation as an aid to prayer and suggest that a quiet
time, aside from prayer, will be beneficial to all alcoholics. The
habit of relaxation practiced during these quiet times is exactly
what we need. We attempt to momentarily suspend all mental and physical
activities. We try to relax our entire bodies, then close our minds
to the worries and anxieties about us. What do we think about? Just
relaxation. Then we let go of our cares and turn to God with this
simple prayer: Thy Will Be Done.
Little Red Book pp.105-106
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